RELATION

"Women like attention and they
like to be told clearly that they
are loved. Don't be stingy in
expressing your love for your
wife. If you become limited in
expressing your love, you will
create a barrier of harshness
between you and her, and there
will be a decrease in affection."
-Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal
(rahimahullah)

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